“Life is a mystery. ”
I prefer to think of it as a jigsaw puzzle. The gathering of information and ideas for us to fit together, all the while, hoping to “get the picture”.
If you’ve ever made a jigsaw puzzle with many pieces, it seems an overwhelming task, at first.
Childhood teaches us to recognize the colors and shapes.
Adolescence is a time when we can start to recognize that flat edges go on the outside… a framing. But still, so very chaotic when we realize how many pieces are left to organize.
Adulthood is the time the sky pieces are bundled and, using the colors and shapes from childhood, we start to build.
As we move along, we make new bundles. Like pieces are organized, by color, giving us a plan and a vision of becoming whole. Then we start to examine the shapes because the shapes, are the true means that, enable us to build.
Colors are the events, both good and unfortunate, that we carry. Shapes are the way we react to and use the events. Learning to live takes practice and how we deal with events,( our scruples, our curiosity and our ability to forgive) give the shapes clarity and makes them interlocking.
Finally, we find that there are few pieces left. The organizing is done and there is an ease with which we build. A life, lived well, is now a beautiful picture. Even if a few pieces have become misshapen or lost, it is a wonder to behold.
Remember to help children to recognize and define. They will need that.
Forgive adolescent disorder and marvel at their framework, instead.
Enjoy the busy, colorful adulthood that you have worked for.
Take time to reminisce with the elderly, there’s much to be learned from people who see the whole picture.